Monday, 29 April 2019

Is She Faking It? These Real Orgasm Audios Reveal the Truth…

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How to Tell if She Had an Orgasm Every Single Time…

As a woman, I love when a guy is able to get me off on his own. It makes me feel more connected to him, which just makes me want him all the more (and all the more often).
But I also understand that sometimes it’s hard for women to communicate what they want in the bedroom. And because of that, she might end up “faking it” with you out of courtesy.
In fact, one recent study revealed that 22.5% of women never or very infrequently have an orgasm during sex. And here’s the thing: This is not your problem.
When she decides to fake an orgasm, she’s choosing not to give you that opportunity to get her off.
But you don’t have to let her make that choice anymore.
If you want to become a sexual master…
And recognize when the real thing is happening every time…
Now you can.

Enter the Library of Every Man’s Dreams…

The same study that discovered over 22% of women never or rarely have an orgasm during sex also curated a pretty interesting library…
I know what you’re thinking: Library? Interesting? Sure…
Well, this isn’t that kind of library — in fact, you could barely call it a library at all!
It’s a collection of audio footage of real women having real orgasms.
The project, dubbed the Orgasm Library of Real Sounds, allows women to anonymously upload audio of their orgasms — whether they’re masturbating or with a partner (or partners).
If you’re wondering why the hell any woman would choose to share her orgasm with thousands of strangers, I can’t blame you…
But more on that in a second.
The library currently contains over 250 real female orgasms just waiting to be heard. And considering over 100 women uploaded their orgasms in the first week of the project’s launch last month, there’ll be more and more rolling in.
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That’s Not All…

When you listen to the audio footage, a visual simulation plays along with the orgasm. Pictured above, the spirals and swirls match the pitch and frequency of the orgasm and provide a more stimulating experience overall.
The company behind the study and the Orgasm Library is Bijoux Indiscrets, whose CEO and founder Marta Aguiar had this to say about the project:
Moans and sound in general, when real, are great communication tools during sex, and communication is key. But when sounds are performed instead of felt, they make less sense.
Unlike with porn, which is often unrealistic, there’s no performance involved in this library.

“What does this mean for me?”

There are two main takeaways from all of this:

1) You can unlock any woman’s sexuality if you make her feel comfortable

To answer the question of why these women are anonymously uploading their orgasms:
It’s because they want you to listen.
And under the guise of a “library” containing anonymous audio footage with beautiful visuals, women are much more comfortable sharing their pleasure with you.
This means that if you can make a woman feel as comfortable as she does in front of a computer screen…
You can unlock your ability to give her an orgasm every single time.
So how do you do that?
The easiest and most effective way is to make her feel comfortable when she comes back to your place. Check out GC founder Craig’s article about designing the ultimate bachelor pad for more information on that.
That brings me to the next point…

2) You can give her an orgasm every single time — and know it

The study revealed that 52.1% of women have faked it at least once in their lives.
It also revealed that 60% of women use moaning as a performance tactic to excite their partners.
These are pretty disturbing numbers…
But not for you. If you listen to enough of the files in the library, you’ll eventually internalize the sound of a real orgasm.
And that means you’ll be able to tell right away if she’s faking it or not.
Obviously, you want to give her a real orgasm every time and not even have to worry about whether or not she’s faking it.
And now I’m going to show you how.
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The Crazy S— That Happens When You Get Her Off…

When you’re able to give her an orgasm every time you have sex, there are some pretty crazy things that happen.
First, that woman will form a direct association between you and her personal pleasure. She knows that having sex with you leads to an orgasm.
This puts you in the ultimate position of power…
Secondly, if you’re able to get her off every time, she’ll feel more emotionally connected to you.
And that gives you an in to mold your relationship with her. Because she’s getting something from you (an orgasm), you can use that power to dictate when and how you have sex with her.
So whether you want to fit her into your rotation of two to three women…
Or keep her as your exclusive girlfriend…
It’ll be a hell of a lot easier if you’re getting her off consistently.
And as a woman, the most consistent way that guys have gotten me and my friends off doesn’t involve them being “hung like a horse” or pounding away for hours…
In fact, let me tell you about my friend Susan.

How My “Jock-Obsessed” Friend Got Absolutely HOOKED on a Quiet, Nerdy Guy in One Night…

A couple of weeks back, Susan went out on this date with this kind of nerdy guy who wasn’t athletic at all.
She wasn’t too excited about him going into the date, but…
…even though he was kind of shy…
…and really quite introverted…
He had this quiet confidence about his sexuality, almost like he knew he just needed to get her into bed…
…and she’d be absolutely hooked!
Susan told me it was a huge turn-on, and even though she didn’t think she was going to go home with him…
At the end of the night, there she was, back at his place…
…not sure what to expect…
But when he got her naked and used something he called the “STFD Method” on her…
She can’t stop talking about this guy–I mean, whatever he did really messed with her head, but in the best way possible…
She’s turned down all kinds of jocky, athletic types (who she normally absolutely can’t resist) in the hopes that this quiet, kinda nerdy guy will become her boyfriend.
You see, “STFD” stands for “Slow the F— Down,” and while she said he did go slow, it involved so much more…
And actually, when she asked him where he learned about it, he admitted that it was a tantric master who had taught him this.

Talk to Her Like THIS and She’ll Instantly Open Up to You

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How to Have Meaningful Conversations That Leave Her Wanting More…

Last week, I showed you the “Interview Trap” most men fall into during conversations with new women.
To recap:
The “Interview Trap” is what happens when you find one thing in common with the woman you’re talking to…
And you hang onto that subject for dear life until you’re so far down the rabbit hole that you can’t get out.
The consequences of this are twofold:
First, you establish an artificially deep connection. When you focus on one subject and milk it for all it’s worth, you’ll feel closer to her than you actually are.
And that means that when you change the subject, things will feel really awkward.
The second consequence of this is that you won’t be able to continue the conversation. It will end awkwardly, and you can basically guarantee she won’t be calling you.
So how do you:
a) avoid this trap, and…
b) lead the conversation so you never have to worry about it in the first place?

If Conversation Is a Game, Here Are the Rules…

When you fall into the “Interview Trap” with a woman, you establish a rapport with her that feels too deep and creates tension as a result.
So if you aren’t trying to establish a deep rapport with her in your first conversation, what are you trying to do?
When you meet a woman for the first time, it’s OK to “um…” and “er…” your way through small talk.
Small talk gets a bad rap, but here’s the truth: Small talk is good. Small talk is your friend.
The purpose of small talk is to collect information. At the end of the day, the goal of your first conversation with a woman is to figure out what lights her up.
A couple weeks ago, I showed you how to make your very own “Conversation Cheat Sheet.” It’s your list of 7 or 8 things that you:

1) Love talking about…

2) Are good at talking about, and…

3) Know that other people will enjoy talking about.

And just like you have your list of talking points…
So will every woman you meet. Your goal is to figure out her topics.
When you can figure out any woman’s 7 or 8 favorite things to talk about, then you’ve essentially figured out what makes her tick.
This gives you a ton of control and will allow you to lead your interactions with her exactly the way you want.

How to Play the Game of Conversation Like a Boss

Here’s an example of what your first conversation with a woman should NOT look like:
You: My chocolate lab is hilarious — he thinks he’s a lap dog!
Her: “Wow — that’s a big coincidence! My lab is chocolate too! His name is Boba Fett!”
You: “Mine is Bobby Brown! He’s so great, my whole world.”
Her: “But I don’t really spend any time with my Boba Fett. I realized he was a big mistake. Too big! Too playful! My mom takes care of him.”
You: “…uh . . . er . . .”
This is an example of the “Interview Trap.” Looks pretty easy to fall into, right?
So if the goal of your conversation is to discover her 7 or 8 talking points, how do you do that?
Change the subject.
Rather than dig a hole in your first conversation, you instead want to plow the field. You’re just going to turn over the topsoil.
So when you find a point of rapport — something you have in common with her — don’t dig into it. Instead, switch things up.
Here’s what this looks like in practice:
Her: “Wow – that’s a big coincidence! My Lab is chocolate too! His name is Boba Fett!”
You: “Star Wars Fan, huh?” (Because Boba Fett is a Star Wars character)
It’s actually quite simple. When you find something good to talk about, talk around and away from it instead.
Here’s another example:
Her: “You grew up in the South? I spent my first seven years in Georgia!”
You: “You must have a big family, then.” (Because people often associate big families with the South)
Or,
Her: “I know this is not common with girls, but Scarface is my favorite movie!”
You: “Really? Have you ever been to Miami?” (Because Scarface takes place there)

That’s Not All…

Notice how you’re completely changing the subject. You are not expanding the topic.
“Huh?”
When you expand the topic, you might feel like you’re changing the subject, but really you’re staying on the same general talking point.
Here’s what that looks like:
Her: “I know this is not common with girls, but Scarface is my favorite movie!”
You: “Do you like Serpico? Or how about The Godfather?”
While this might look like it’s moving the conversation along, in reality you aren’t going to discover another one of her talking points by doing this.
Remember, you’re playing the game to figure out what makes her tick. Not to feel comfortable in your conversation.
If this conversation goes well, this game of hunting and exploring can go on for as long as 45 minutes or more.
At a certain point, it should stop feeling like “information gathering” and start feeling like real, natural conversation.
And the longer you talk with her, the better you’ll become at spotting her favorite subjects (and subsequently exploring them).
You’ll be able to recognize her excitement…
Passion…
Interest…
Curiosity…
Surprise…
And eventually, you can take those emotions and mold them into her sexual desire for you.
How?
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A Proven Shortcut to Escalate Her Sexual Desire During Any Conversation

When you start hunting and exploring new topics with new women, the next step is to figure out where it’s going — is she sexually attracted to you? And how do you amplify that desire?
There’s one simple trick you can use to give yourself the best possible chance of sparking her sexual desire during conversation…
Here’s the thing, though: It has nothing to do with talking.
Even if you just met her, you can take her mind to a very dirty place…
All you have to do is click here to find out the insanely easy and scientifically proven method that takes her from 0 to 100 in less than 30 seconds…