Do you ever feel guilty for pretending to fall asleep when your partner wants to have sex, only to sneak away to the bathroom and take care of yourself? Well you're not alone. There's nothing wrong with wanting some alone time with yourself when you're horny, even if your partner is more than willing to help. Sometimes, you just want to make yourself orgasm, without anyone else involved. Here, 15 people took to Reddit to share whether or not they prefer masturbation to sex and why.
User naturalalchemy. “Sure, they're totally different. Sex is like a Michelin star 3 course meal that you want to spend time over and savour, but sometimes you just want a burger!”
User an_eggman . "With sex, I'm constantly trying to please my girlfriend. Sometimes I just want to think about myself. It's apples and oranges really, so why not have both? Also, I have some weird fetishes my girlfriend is not into at all, so p*rn+fap is really the only way to drain those feelings…"
User _Error_. "I think that masturbation is often overlooked as a form of foreplay. Personally, it turns me on to see my guy fap, and sometimes (but don't assume it's true for all women), I'd just like to touch myself with the anticipation of a good facial whenever he sees fit."
User testmuffin. "Yep, sometimes I'm just too tired for sex or not in the mood. After working a long & stressful week at work, it's sometimes easier to just get it done myself in a matter of minutes then worry about pleasing someone else as well as myself."
User smellslikecookies. "Sometimes I don't want sex And would rather masturbate, but for me it's not because getting off with my partner isn't garunteed ( sh*t hasn't failed once in over a year ) but more because the orgasms are completely different. I haven't found anyone who can give me the type of orgasm I get when masturbating. I have three distinct kinds and I can only achieve one of them by myself, just as the boyfriend can only achieve two of them. It's odd, but that's just the way I am I suppose."
Anonymous user. "I think I prefer masturbation sometimes, but then afterward I just feel empty and like nothing has been achieved. I moreso enjoy the warmth and feel of anothers skin on me. It isn't really about the release for me, but the process."
User iceberglettuce. "Given that I can masturbate but don't get sex (virgin here with no prospective sexual partner), I'd say yeah. The answer might be different if I actually did get to have sex as frequently as I can masturbate.
Anonymous user. "Sure. Most of the time it is just that it is easier and quicker to masturbate. It's a matter of convenience. I don't have to bother with wearing a condom (I really hate wearing condoms), finding the lube, or dealing with my girlfriend being too tired, sick, or getting sore before I orgasm."
User captainjeanlucpicard . "I prefer masturbating over sex with my gf because I can fantasize about people I actually want to have sex with without having to worry about pleasing someone else while I'm doing it."
User delgadoalex95. "It's all personal preference. I like both. There are times I like to bang the shit out of my girlfriend, and there are time I like to be alone and masturbate. Is someone exclusively like to masturbate, then that's their personal preference."
User NonProfAccount. "If your talking purely physical sensation, would prefer masturbating. Neither myself or partner are that experienced, so its nothing amazing (at least for me anyway). But you cant ignore the emotional/social aspect inherent to sex, thats what makes it better for me."
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