The Best Ways To Make Women Orgasm, According To Women

The female orgasm is elusive, to say the least.  Seemingly, most (straight) men want to figure out exactly they can make their partners climax each and every single time.  So, we turned to the ladies for some answers.  Per Reddit, 15 women reveal the best ways to make women reach that big O.  Pro tip, fellas:  You might want to take notes!

User “powerthrowaway.” "Doggy-style for sure. Especially if he's grabbing my hips hard and f*cking me like I'm just there for him to use.

On the other end of the spectrum, when we're having nice, slow, missionary sex and he's close, he'll stop and just hold me while he calms down. It's incredibly intimate and sweet. I love feeling that connected.”

Anonymous. "Find what she likes and consistency. Don't keep changing up the motions. Once you find something that makes me quiver, stick with that.”

User “engineeringtits.” "Enthusiasm during oral. Normally I'm not a huge fan, but if a guy goes at it like his life depends on it, I'm all his.”

User “bowling4pye.” "For me or depends on how intense the foreplay is. If I'm riled up I'll come. If the guy puts little effort in I feel like he's just trying to get his d*ck wet. When the guy shows he actually cares about my pleasure, that alone can set me off. Just try men.”

User “stonegatherer.” A steady pace. Fast or slow doesn't matter, as long as it's steady. A hard pounding is a sure fire way to me off. What position I'm in is sort of relevant, so long at the spot is getting stimulation. Size is about 50% relevant. I like to feel full, but it isn't a requirement. The shape is irrelevant, so long at it fits and feels good for both of us.”

User “CrustyDiamond.” "Usually when the guy tells me he's going to c*m. I recently learned how to c*m on top, so that's cool. Otherwise the best position is on my back with my legs on his shoulders, or face down a** up.”

User “CrustyDiamond.” "After years of being a silent submissive, I am now comfortable taking control of sex just enough to let him know exactly how to work me. That empowerment in and of itself is hot.

I also have grown accustomed to realizing when I'm trying to 'hurry the job up' for him, so I'll make him stop and f*ck me REALLY slow.. that usually revs me rgight back up, plus it's a nice 'change of pace’.”

User “lefluffybunnies.” "I always need some sort of clitoral stimulation to orgasm. Sometimes its easier and sometimes its hardier. Being in the right mood and having plenty of warm up time always helps..”

User “lefluffybunnies.” "Or sometimes I am just so f*cking horny that I can come much easier then I usually would. Sometimes I have orgasmed just from rubbing my clit on my partner's hard c*ck. For me what gets me closer every time is hearing how horny my partner is. Hearing him moan really helps."

User “RedPens.” "Being on my back with my legs up by my shoulders, and being f*cked in the a**. It's especially hot when I finger myself at the same time and I can feel his c*ck moving in and out of my a** through my vagina. I c*m very, very fast this way.”

User “picklesyonions.” "Position: reverse cowgirl Fantasy: multiple guys, or having all my holes filled Action: anything anal related. It feels amazing for me.”

User “Axel_val.” "Best position during sex: Missionary. Action: Slow, deep thrusts from him plus me touching myself. Unfortunately he can't lean down or my hand will be squished and mess it up :(“

User “Axel_val.” "Fantasy: I don't generally fantasize about other things during sex, but lately I've been getting off most consistently with a gang-bang fantasy. I also use the fantasy of giving a blowjob and having a guy c*m on me a lot. I have c*m while on top from touching myself too, but never from just sex. Oral and fingering are always good too, but this question is more about sex-sex.”

User “LyssaBrisby.” "Lots of things, but the common theme is high pressure on the mons (indirectly stimulating the internal shafts of the clit). I am not a ‘twiddler,' I am a grinder, and getting deep penetration with high pubic bone contact is a lot of fun in a lot of ways.

Being dominated/ravished is our typical (and best) emotional interaction, too."

Anonymous. "I need mine to tell me what to do. It is ALL about the foreplay. Intercourse is for the man. Everything else (mind trips, spanking, ropes, dirty slut talk) is all for me. I want to have absolutely no control of the situation. Even then, it's still difficult for me to orgasm without stimulating myself.

But we are all different. And finding what the individual likes is key."