The Sex Tip That Will Improve Your Marriage, According To Your Zodiac

Marriage takes work. Just because you've been with each other for a while doesn't mean that it's unbreakable. It takes work. You need to care enough to keep it going. If you care, then you're in luck. There are plenty of ways to keep marriages afloat, even when things are getting stale. The best place to start, naturally, is in the bedroom.  You know what your spouse likes, but it's time to focus on your own expertise, and incorporate that as best you can. Keep reading to discover the sex tip that will improve your marriage, according to your Zodiac

Aries. Be open for anything. You’ve never been one for holding back, so don’t go down down that road just because you’re married. Take this time as a chance to expand on your core value — which, in your case, is never looking before you leap.

Taurus. Explore every inch of each other. This isn’t just some random hookup, this is your spouse. The love of your life. So act accordingly. Don’t just become one with his or her sexual accoutrements, become one with whole enchilada (without ever once referring to them as an enchilada).

Gemini. Try Viagra. No one’s saying your or partner needs this. But that’s not to say it won’t help. Popping a boner pill even if it’s not entirely necessary will up the sexual atmosphere and keep the ball rolling, so to speak, for longer than usual.

Cancer. Start with a massage. There’s no rush, and as someone who tends to get enveloped in situations, whether emotional or physical, this is especially vital for you. A relaxing massage session will set the pace for the rest of the evening, and will help you avoid any moments of spontaneous crying.

Leo. Switch between dominant and submissive roles. You’re a giver. It’s just how you roll. But sharing roles in a marriage is a major necessity. So give it a try in the bedroom. If you can keep things balanced in the bedroom, then the rest of your life has some smooth sailing to look forward to.

Virgo. Start in the shower. Let’s be honest, you’re something of a perfectionist. You like things to be very particular. With sex, it’s no different. So you may as well start off in the best way possible, as clean as possible. The whole being naked aspect of it won’t hurt either.

Libra. Bring it outside. You know your way around the bedroom. No one’s arguing with you about that. But if you want to keep your marriage healthy, you’ve got to keep it interesting. So step out of your comfort zone. Step outside. It’ll do you some good.

Scorpio. Play rough. If you keep fighting your natural urges and instincts, you’re going to explode. So stop fighting it. To keep your marriage from igniting into flames on account of your fiery passion, let it all out in the bedroom — which is to say, have intense, hot sex.

Sagittarius. Tease for as long as you can. You usually just like to dive headfirst into the first fun thing you come into contact with. But it’s always healthy to try something different for a change. In this case, don’t rush.

Capricorn. Don’t plan it. You are the least spontaneous person around. It may not be the best news you’ve heard all day, but it doesn’t make it any less true. Breaking out of routine will do wonders.

Aquarius. Record yourselves. We live in a digital age, and though you likely don’t want to share a video of you having sex with your spouse with the world, it shouldn’t deny you and your spouse to return to your favorite nights of passion for some instant replays whenever the two of you please. Just hit play (and make sure you’re not connected to the internet).

Pisces. Read erotica beforehand. You have a visual mind. You like to imagine. So before the two of you get hot and heavy, read something that’s hot and heavy first. Where some people may only see words, you see the scene, which is only going to get you readier and readier for the real thing.

Signs Your Sex Is On Fire, According To Sexperts

On a scale of 0 to 69 (more reliable ways to hone in on just how spicy — or stale — your weekly romp sessions really are. Exactly what are these other, more reliable ways, you ask? Over at Women's Health, reporter Krissy Brady spoke to six diverse sexperts about the matter, offering readers varied certified insights into knowing whether or not they're nailing things between the sheets. Curious as to what the experts had to say? Read on below.

Beginning. During the early stages of a relationship, your sex life is on point — it’s essentially non-stop rompin,' every day, all day. But once you’ve past the honeymoon phase, things start to, well, dwindle down.

Lull. Nonetheless, it can be difficult to tell whether a lull in the bedroom is simply a lull or if it's something more. So, how can you tell whether or not take your life between the sheets is about take a dive for the worst?

Clues. Fortunately, there are a slew of ways to know if your sex life with your other half is on the right track or not. Women’s Health reached out to a few sex experts on the subject, and here’s what they had to say.

Secure. Feel secure as hell in your relationship? Namely in the bedroom? Good News: According to Women’s Health, you’re on the right track!

Sexual esteem. "Both of you have a good sense of your sexual esteem and feel attractive and desirable,” Jane Greer, Ph.D., sex therapist and author of “What About Me? Stop Selfishness From Ruining Your Relationship” told the outlet. "Even if you miss a week, or one of you isn't in the mood, it doesn't define your entire intimate life.”

Staying proactive. "As a result,” Greer continues, "neither of you take these moods personally. The key to maintaining this confidence is staying proactive in expressing (and acting upon) your desires to sexually connect with your partner.”

Prioritize sex. Good sex practice number two? You both prioritize sex. Speaking to Women’s Health, Ava Cadell, Ph.D., author of “NeuroLoveology,” said: "Making your partner feel like number one is key to a healthy sex life (even if you have kids).”

Schedule. "Make sex a priority by scheduling a sex date once a week,” Cadell added. "When couples do this, it's a sign that they want to please each other.” Of course, there’s a right way to schedule sex, so don’t force it either.

Emotionally connected. Feel emotionally in tune with your partner? Perfect. "Feeling emotionally connected and wanted by your partner makes you more interested in sex,” according to Debra Laino, a board-certified clinical sexologist.

Catch up. "A good exercise to keep this up is to choose to spend at least an hour per week catching up on your feelings towards each other—one-on-one, no interruptions,” Laino concluded. Pro tip: Make it a casual talk — nothing too serious. Otherwise, it’ll just take the fun out of it.

Orgasms. Perhaps unsurprisingly, orgasms are important in a relationship, too. And the more you have them, the more you know your sex life is on point — like, really on point.

Absence of orgasm. "While orgasming is not the whole point of sex, the absence of orgasm is a signal that something else is missing, like comfort, info about what turns you on, arousal, time, and mutual respect,” Carol Queen, Ph.D., staff sexologist for Good Vibrations, told Women’s Health.

Not on the same page. Queen added: "If you're not on the same page as far as the timing of sex, take each other's specific needs into account and alter your sexual schedule accordingly.”

Sex quota. Have sex consistently with your beau? This is a good sign, according to Women’s Health. “There isn't a certain amount of times a couple should have sex per week, as long as there's consistency in how often you get at it,” Kelley Kitley, a Chicago-based psychotherapist told the outlet.

Communicate. "If sex becomes absent, bring it up,” Kitley advised. "Someone should always take the initiative during a dry spell to keep your sex life on track.” In short, speak up if something feels off, you’re only hurting yourself — and the relationship — if you don’t.

Masturbation. Last, but certainly not least, if you play with yourself on the regular, you’re not only doing yourself a favor, but your partner as well. "Masturbation is good for both of you,” certified sex therapist Kat Van Kirk, Ph.D., said. "Sex begets sex, thanks to our biochemistry. That means more masturbation leads to more partnered sex." And what's better than that?

Female Sexual Enhancements You Didn’t Know Existed

It’s pretty well known that men are able to undergo several procedures in order to enhance their penises.  If you’ve spent your nights watching television after midnight, you'd know that you're usually bombarded by commercials advertising pills and special treatments specifically made for penis enhancement.  But did you know that there are certain procedures that women can get that also allow for sexual enhancement?  Here, we discuss some of these procedures, and how they work.

Procedures. There are many reasons why a woman would want to get an enhancement procedure down below. Some women need to do so for health reasons, while other women simply want to experience more sexual pleasure.

Self-conscious. As women get older, they come to realize that their lady parts might not be what they used to be. Some women might feel self-conscious about it and decide to do something about it.

Labia puffing. According to Cracked, labia puffing is a procedure that involves getting botox injected into your vagina. This procedure is meant to essentially “rejuvenate” a woman’s vagina after it’s lost its elasticity due to aging, thus becoming more wrinkled.

Aging. "As women age, the labia loses its laxity and it may take on a deflated appearance. Like any other part of the body, the labia is [sic] also subject to wrinkling,” says a website that performs the procedure, as reported by Cosmopolitan.

Unnecessary. This procedure basically gives your vagina a facelift, which doesn't exactly seem necessary unless you’re a woman who’s extremely self-conscious of the way your labia looks. But if you’re someone who’s after having a "perfect-looking" vagina, well then, this procedure is for you.

O-shot. The O-shot involves taking a sample of your own blood and getting it reinserted into your clitoris via a needle. The procedure is meant to boost sexual pleasure for women who may have a hard time climaxing.

Costly. While the procedure might seem a little painful at first, many women who’ve gotten it claim it did wonders for their sex lives. The only problem is, they can be a little costly, with each injection costing around $1,200.

Liposuction. Believe it or not, it is possible to get liposuction done on your vagina. The official name for it is “liposculpturing of the mons pubis and labia majora,” and according to Dr. David Matlock, it removes “unsightly fatty bulges” and any accumulated fat in your vagina.

Discomfort. Some women chose to get the procedure because they’re self-conscious of the “bulge” — otherwise known as a “camel toe” — that forms when they wear pants or tight jeans. Others get it not only for aesthetic purposes, but also because it may feel uncomfortable for them.

Procedure. According to Cracked, the procedure consists of a doctor sucking the fat out of your vagina after it gets injected with fluid and anesthetic, and lasts anywhere between 20 to 40 minutes. A woman can chose to get liposuction if they feel like they’ve acquired fat in their genitals either after significant weight gain or childbirth.

Hoodectomy. A hoodectomy is basically what it sounds like — the reduction of a woman’s clitoral hood. It involves removing excess tissue from what is called “hood” of the vagina. A lot of women are unable to climax because of this extra tissue, since it also covers the clitoris.

Incision. Doctors make an incision through the hood and remove the extra skin. The procedure doesn’t take long and doctors use an anesthetic, so there’s not much pain involved.

Anal rejuvenation. Lastly, you also have the option of giving your anus an entirely new makeover by getting an anal rejuvenation. According to Cracked, this involves bleaching your anus and tightening your sphincter.

Anus. The procedure can also remove an anal warts, polyps, or excess skin folds in your anus. "Anal rejuvenation can help relieve the pain and discomfort associated with many rectal conditions, and most importantly help to restore your self-confidence,” says the Los Angeles Colorectal Surgeon and Sspecialist website.

You. Would you ever consider getting any of these procedures done? Tell us why or why not in the comments section — we want to hear your opinions!

The Audiobook Sex Toy Has Been Invented And Erotic Fiction Is About To Get A Whole Lot More Erotic

If you’re already a fan of erotic fiction, you probably already know just how hot and heavy those books can make you feel. So it's likely that you won’t need any convincing when it comes to trying out a brand new sex toy that’s been recently released called a Vibease, which you can use while reading your favorite chapter from the series. This sex toy is the first of its kind and uses smart technology to give you the ultimate erotic experience.

Sex toy. A company has just released a new sex toy that caters to every erotic fiction lover’s tastes. Meant to be used along your favorite steamy novel, this sex toy is changing the way you read erotic books.

How it operates. The user downloads an app that syncs to the toy, which you’re able to control with your phone. They then have a choice of either letting the toy operate on it’s own, or being able to control it themselves via the app. You could even, theoretically, allow your partner to control the toy.

Voice. ”Imagine listening to Fifty Shades Of Grey, when the voice says 'I’m touching you softly,’ it vibrates softly. And when the voice says ‘I’m touching you hard,’ it vibrates hard. Like in the real intimacy, the user will experience surprises and anticipation,” a spokesperson for the company named Violet told the Daily Mail UK. This experience would definitely be aided with the addition of a partner who could use the toy to touch you in certain places, enhancing the experience.

Book selections. If you don’t already have a book picked out or want to try out a new one, the Vibease app also offers a wide selection of erotic audiobooks for you to choose from, and it also allows users to publish their own books. So this app not only gets you off, but fosters your erotic creative energy. Write your own erotic fiction.

Hands free. The device is also hands free, so you’ll be free to sip on a glass of wine, eat some chocolate, or even paint your nails while you listen and "experience every soft caress to passionate lovemaking,” as per Vibease’s website. We like the sound of a hands-free experience, for sure. Nobody really likes having to do all the work.

Sexting. But wait, this sex toy’s magic doesn’t stop just at audio books. You can also sync the toy to work with your sexts, so that the next time you find yourself deep in a passionate text conversation with your partner while longing for his touch, it'll feel somewhat like he’s there. Long distance relationships will absolutely benefit from this technology. Or if you are traveling away from your partner for a few days. Or even just want to spice things up.

Video calls. Anyone who’s ever sexted knows that if things get passionate the conversation they may eventually lead to a face to face phone conversation. And thanks to Vibease, you can also video call your partner while you’re getting off. This toy, while definitely benefiting the person who bought it, has benefits for anyone intimately involved with its user. Pretty cool.

Face to face. "Video chat works just like a regular Skype call. Initiate your call to your partner and wait for him/her to answer the call, and you will be talking to your partner face-to-face,” says the website. The app even allows your partner to control what your sex toy does,” says the Vibease website.

Options. The website also offers another type of sex toy for even more added stimulation. Named the Esthesia Smart Rabbit Vibrator, this toy comes with another attachment that is meant to stimulate the G-spot. G-spot stimulation is quite elusive without the use of a toy, so this is quite helpful for anyone seeking out that kind of pleasure.

Journey. Much like the Vibease, you can also connect your Esthesia to you app. "Esthesia lets you enjoy every second of the journey all the way up until the best exciting intense ‘conclusion,'" says the website.

Devices. Both devices are waterproof and made with safe silicone. They are rechargeable via a USB device and once fully charged, can last for up to three hours. They’re also quiet, so no one will know what you’re really up to behind closed doors. This is especially helpful if you don't live alone.

Smart toy. Another woman named Liz Klinger also recently announced that she’d invented a “smart” sex toy that would allow women to get to know themselves better sexually. The app gets data transmitted via the toy’s sensors that can tell a woman how much time she should be spending on foreplay.

Conservative. "I grew up in a conservative family. We never talked about sex. I wanted to create a [sex toy] that could empower women to learn more about their bodies,” said Klinger, as reported by the Mirror UK. And many families raise their children with little to no sexual education in the home whatsoever, something hopefully that will decrease in the future years to come.

Development. The toy will however, cost you a pretty penny— costing you around $230. The toy, which will be called the “Lioness,” is still in the works and Klinger and her co founders are still in the process of raising money to fun the product’s development. As the technology becomes more readily available, the price will drop. Until then, you're going to have to fork over a pretty penny.

You. Would you ever try one of these smart sex toys? Are you a big fan of erotic fiction, or is it not really your scene? Do you love sex toys in the bedroom? Which ones are your favorite? Share your opinions with us!