When most people think of sex work, they think of women. But the reality is, male escorts and adult films stars are just as prevalent. For some men, this is simply a part-time job, but for others, it’s a lifestyle. Here, 15 male sex workers took to Reddit to open up about the details of their life and what their job entails.
User disposable_moniker. "The whole setup had the kind of fun moments you'd expect - I f***ed an executive from an airline in his top-floor suite on the waterfront (he had a ton of bondage gear and wanted me to be as rough as possible), my boyfriend and I cleared $1,300 for a relatively brief threesome with the hospital manager, and I got to see an interesting side of people's sexuality that most guys don't get to witness, which was very interesting. I found it was easier to manage the money I made hooking than it was to manage my regular salary - when the hours I put in were so directly connected to the money I made, I became frugal and business-oriented in a way I hadn't seen in myself before."
User BlackLabelBaloo. "I do consider myself straight and yes I do oral on men. It's definitely not my favorite thing to do by any means but oddly enough I feel much more comfortable performing oral on a guy then having a guy perform oral on me. That always makes me feel super uncomfortable."

User gavrilushka. "I worked as an escort for about 2-3 years in a big diverse city so my story may be a little different. My price was fairly high as I was young (19) and in really good shape. My clients tended to be wealthy and married in their mid 30s-50s, either curious or closeted. I occasionally would get the nervous virgin or the guy who never tried to top before or the guy who wanted to explore fetishes or other sexual exploration in a safe environment free from judgement."

User oncallman123throwawa. "I was a male escort/gigalo for a year or so, but I was a bit of a special case. I was on-call for two brothels (prostitution is legal in my country) although they were effectively the same brothel just in different parts of the city (same owners, girls would work at both, etc) They would call me for situations where a guy wanted to try a MMF threesome with a girl, or sometimes a couple would come in and want a girl and a guy to play with, but that only happened rarely."
User MistaJenkins. "I had a brief stint in male escorting for a little bit. I decided that I wouldn't service dudes because that's my primary attraction and I wanted it to be all business. Most of my clients were married, older women who were teachers or retired ones. I did it the old fashioned way through word of mouth, starting with getting contacts through a family friend who got me into the "lonely teacher" circle. All of them were from the next city over and I didn't use my real name because I also decided I wouldn't service anyone from my home town for obvious reasons."

User _Dorkus_Prime_. "Former Male Escort who worked with women through specific "dating" sites. It was mostly older women who would contact me. Two of my clients couldn't be handled as hard as they wanted too because of bad hips/fake knees, ect. The only time I worked with younger women or women my own age was if it was for a film shoot/photo shoot, or just something casual her and I would plan."

User BMGPmusicisbad. "I was once a mid-range priced internet male escort, mostly around a decade ago. The majority of people I met were upper-middle class gay men. I tended to gravitate to and attract fairly benevolent and respectable characters."
User reign-storm. “My clientele was primarily 30's to 50's guys. Most were very polite, they were either to old to find sex or they got off on it and had money to spare. I was pretty cheap but it worked for me."

User Rpgwaiter. "Most of my clients were lonely women, down on their luck. I've had a few men ask me for my services, but I'm entirely straight, it's not worth the money to me. I operated entirely out of craigslist, about 5 years ago is when I quit. It was wild, but as far as my clients go, most of the women I catered to were socially inept. There were a few good looking "normal" woman who would use my services, but they were few and far between."

User FuzzPedalOfDoom. "Did it on and off last year as a (faiiiirly convincing) crossdresser - average clientele would probably be middle aged (40s to late 50s) guy, balding/bald, sliightly overweight. All pretty polite and nothing seemed shady about any of 'em. None of them seemed super rich but they were mostly businessmen clearly making a little bit above average (from their clothes and the cars they turned up in). Had interest from one or two couples, but it's mostly men."
User KingBooScaresYou. "I spent just over a year of uni being a male escort for men and women to help fund my studies etc. My price was quite high as I was a 20 year old male in good shape, with a good sized package too. Women tended to be young professionals who in many cases wanted utmost secrecy and discretion. Many of them were just looking for a no hassle no strings attached meet up. Often they didn't even want anything overly kinky, so the idea that it's a fifty shades sort of deal isn't really the case I found. Many just wanted a nice fun emotionally warm time. Typical ages were about 26-35."

User Pollyjuice22. "I've worked as Fin Dom. The usual is cash point meets (I meet the sub at a cash machine, he gives me his debit card and pin, I withdraw what I want as he watches). That's it really."

User Straight_Drop1. "I was more of like a straight up hooker for a few months a couple years back. All my clients were guys, very diverse. Some were old fat rude men, some middle aged married guys, black, white, Indian, even some younger guys that I thought were very attractive. Most common was them blowing me which I didn't expect. Least common was this regular I had kept asking me to not shower cause he wanted me to be "ripe”.
User ryanjames01. "I'm a male sex worker and p**n performer in Australia that's been doing this job full time for the past four and a half years. I only see female clients. Looks wise, I see everyone. All ages, from 20 up until nearly 70. All body shapes and sizes. If you're working as a sex worker and you're discriminating based on looks you're not going to very successful."
User Lalivero. "Amateur escort here. I'm gay, and I only see male clients. I used to see this fat old european guy. He was really into getting his body massaged with lotion, and kissing with tongue. Made small talk while I massaged him. That is pretty much what we did, and for an hour and a half he would give me 250 cash."
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