Breaking news: There are women — a lot of them, actually — who hate oral sex. Like, it. No, we're not kidding. While the mere thought of a lady refusing some slip 'n slide lovin' might evoke a "WTF" out of you, it's really not as uncommon or weird as you may think. Don't believe us? Well thanks to Reddit, we've got proof! We here at Rebel Circus were able to find 15 stories of women who hate it when guys go down on them. Check them out below!
It’s stressful. One Redditor describes how stressful it can be to have a guy go down on her: "I don't care for the worries in the back of my head, it takes away the ability to relax. Did I miss a spot shaving? Do I smell bad? Taste funny? Are there any funky little bits of toilet paper stuck to anything? Pimples I can't see? While everything going on down there feels pretty nice... I cannot relax & enjoy it enough to get off.”
It gets boring. One woman on Reddit reveals how “blah” the entire thing can get after a mere minute or two. "Though it feels pretty good for a minute or two, after that I get bored with a side of ‘Oh my god, what if he doesn't like the taste? What if I smell bad? Is he only doing this because he thinks I want him to? But if I ask him to come up, will he think he's done a bad job?’” She adds, "I'd much rather he just come up and stick his c**k in my mouth, more enjoyable for everyone.”
Just not that into it. For some women, oral isn’t stressful or boring — it’s just not that stimulating. "I’m not embarassed or self-conscious at all about it - I'm just not that into it,” one Redditor shares. "I need more stimulation to come than a tongue can provide (yes, even if he fingers me at the same time, yes, even if I'm being active during it, yes, even if you think you're the God of Oral) and frankly I just like having sex more than I like being eaten out.”
They'd rather be the “giver." Some ladies prefer to give, if you know what we mean. "I'm not the biggest fan,” one women writes. "It's enjoyable, but I think my issue has something more to do with the fact that I don't like the attention to be all on me. I'm a giver, though.”
It’s too passive. Several women on Reddit agreed that receiving oral feels “passive.” One user writes: “My dislike for receiving oral sex stems mostly from the fact that I feel so passive during it. I want to be doing something to my partner! Because of my height (5'0") 69ing doesn't work out very well whether I'm on top or on the bottom. Every once in awhile I crave it, and then it's great, but my partners in the past have generally wanted to give more often than I wanted to receive.”
It’s a “breathing” thing. Literally. One user revealed that she doesn’t like it when men go down south because of how it feels when they breathe on her. "I'm not a huge fan, but I have a weird thing where I hate feeling anyone breathe on me,” she writes. "It dampens the mood a bit for me during oral because I can feel him breathing down there. It's just too hot (temperature-wise) or something.”
That slippery, sloppy, slobbery feeling? Turns out, a lot of women hate it. "I can't stand the slippery, sloppy, slobbery feeling of it,” one Redditor explains. "I get that vaginas also get wet naturally from stimulation, but for me oral is a very different ‘wetness.' Have had it with several different guys of varying experience levels, still not feeling it.”
It feels “slimy.” On top of the slippery, sloppy, slobbery feeling, some ladies think oral feels “slimy.” One Redditor says: "I'm not self-conscious about my smell or taste at all, but more often than not just feels slimy, and it's a fine line for me between boring and overstimulating. I find it very difficult to orgasm this way, even though I usually orgasm VERY easily during penetration.” (Lucky her!)
It’s “meh.” Believe it or not, a lot of ladies agreed that receiving oral just felt bland to them. "Oral sex is meh for me,” one user writes. "I mean, it's a fun thing that my wife can do. Occasionally. But then I'm over it. It feels nice, don't get me wrong, but it's just not my favorite. I love eating her out, though. I will happily stay down there until my jaw locks. And she loves it. So this works for us quite well.”
They don’t get any pleasure from it. Like, at all. Seriously, it’s true: Some females don’t feel any physical pleasure from receiving oral. "I don't get any physical pleasure out of it whatsoever,” declares one Redditor. "When I explain this to guys they always think I mean that I can't orgasm from it, but that isn't the case. It simply doesn't feel good at all. A couple guys have been very insistent so I finally just gave in and let them. That resulted in me laying there awkwardly not knowing what to do. It doesn't feel good so my mind starts to wander and suddenly I'm thinking about how many days worth of canned cat food I have left or if I need to get gas on the way home. Neither of those are very sexy topics and the mood is ruined for me.”
They need something more. Some women feel that a tongue just isn’t enough. One user writes: "I prefer something a little more aggressive than just oral… I like more pressure… The mouth can only do so much.”
It depends on the person doing it. “You just haven’t met the right guy” is usually BS for most women, but for this woman it turned out to be true: "My SO changed my opinion, in part because of technique, but mostly because of his attitude. He LOVES vagina. Sometimes he will spread me open and look down hungrily and tell me how beautiful I am, and is always crazy enthusiastic about eating me out. Suddenly weird sounds and juice everywhere is really hot instead of vaguely embarrassing, and things feel great. I guess a lot of it is that he makes it very clear that he's enjoying himself, so I'm comfortable relaxing and enjoying the moment.”
Too sensitive. One guy shared his experience in which his partner was way too sensitive down below: "Not a girl, but had one tell me before that she was way too sensitive. She just couldn't take a tongue on her vagina.”
Too sensitive. Bouncing off the previous user’s comment, other women weighed in. For the most part, many agreed: some vaginas can, in fact, be oversensitive. "I think you might be onto something with oversensitive/weirdly-wired clitoris theory,” one user writes. "While I find vibrator/finger-delivered clitoral stimulation immensely more satisfying than oral, it still takes a lot of effort and determination to make myself orgasm from clitoral stimulation alone. I like penetration (by penis, fingers or even toys) a lot better."
All the little things. Some ladies aren’t exactly sure why they don’t like it — all they know is that they just don’t. "I don't know why exactly so sometimes 'non-reasons' are all I can offer,” one women shares. "It feels alright, I'm pretty comfortable with him down there, I don't mind being the center of attention. It's just... It combines all the little things I'm not comfortable with. I just don't really like it."
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